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I hope my experience of two decades of the inner workings of the Pre-Covid church and the experiential wisdom I have currently, as we sit in the middle of the pandemic, will help you embrace the new methods that we’re forced to use in order to minister to our beloved families.

This blog is intended to help you and I build a solid foundation as described in 1 Cor 3:11-13

For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. Now if any man builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it because it is to be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work.…

I’ve built with hay and straw and have suffered greatly.  This new chapter in my life will be focused on building with precious stones.  As we abide in Jesus, the quality of our work will endure the fiery tests that will come our way, this side of heaven.

As a survivor of Narcissistic Spiritual Abuse, I intend to pull back the curtain and let others see what Narcissistic Abuse looks like.  In this pandemic, the stress has amplified and placed a spotlight on the abuse that resides within the church buildings.  It’s been ignored far too long and swept under the rug like a dirty family secret.  Along with KidMin posts, this blog is dedicated to give glory to Christ and share how He’s brought me through seven years of Spiritual Abuse.